The joy of life never ends when you maintain healthy relationships with your near and dear ones. The harmony in relationship should be created much the same way you would create anything else. You need to work on relationships as you work for living. Your reaction at any given situations determines the health of your relationships. Therefore, reacting wisely throughout the trial and tribulations of life is the key to maintaining a healthy relationship and that in turn multiply your joy of life.
The difference in relationships comes out at the surface due to the unique personality of everyone. It is well known truth that no two persons can think and react in the same way. So it is not wise for you to expect from anyone to behave in a certain way in any given situations. Whether you like it or not, they will always behave in a way whatever seems right from their point of view.
Generally, people tend to forget what they should remember and remember what they should forget. For example, they remember the harsh word of someone very well; however, trivial it may be and forget the care, love and affection of the same person too easily. That is why, they keep grudges against the person, and their reaction gets affected by their feelings and that in turn damage their relationships.
So, it should be better if you make a rule to weigh the love of the person with hate before reacting in any particular situations. Often, you will find the weight of love is much higher than the hate of a person. Take the care, love and affection of a person into consideration before making your reaction. By this way, you will always maintain harmony into your relationships and ensure the joy of your life never ends.