Modern life is full of anger and anxiety. Nowadays, it is very common to get angry over little frustration. Whenever situations turn out differently or expectations do not match with reality people tend to get angry no matter how trivial matter may be. The drawback of anger is that it ruins the professional as well as personal relations of a person and hurt them on the physical and emotional level. So, it is utmost importance to get rid of anger for maintaining healthy relationships and leading an enriching life.
Further, anger is a demonstration of frustration. Whenever things do not turn out as per your expectations, you get angry and end up doing or saying something that hurts others and yourself. Over a period of time, anger overpowers you and becomes the victim of it. Even the natural and common lifestyle incidents make yourself angry, such as hot weather, rainy seasons, traffic jam and of the same. In the grip of anger, you lose peace of mind and do things, which only generate regrets for you. No doubt you do not want to do such things, but you feel helpless.
To get rid of anger you need to understand why you get angry. Anger is a form of frustration, which comes in due to non fulfillment of expectations. You expect something to happen according to the way you want them to, and that is the root cause of anger. Things happen according to the law of nature. Every person has their birth right to act and behave as per their wish. No one is bound to act and behave according to your liking. Even natural and common lifestyle things will follow their way without caring your wish. So in that sense it is not wise to get angry.
Whenever you get angry, you should not do or say something immediately. Postpone your reactions for sometimes and then try to remove yourself from the situations to be alone. Engage your mind with positive thoughts and feelings to keep yourself calm and composed. The longer you maintain your peace of mind; your anger will get less attention and energy, and it will gradually vanish. Always remember, mind is very sensitive. Feed your mind with positive thoughts and practice meditation to empower yourself with peace and joy when going gets tough.
To conclude, anger is not going to eliminate problems it will only worsen the situations. Anger is a sign of immature mind, which lack self-respect. If you are internally satisfied, you have been high regards for yourself and never ever demonstrate your anger. As you are internally satisfied, you will not give unwanted attention to external problems and maintain your calmness in difficult situations. So develop self-esteem and keep your expectations in check to get rid of anger.