A positive relationship grows deeper and trustworthy as times go by. Any kind of negativity weakens the bond of relationship, which is mean to connect and hold people together. If you tend to look at negatives aspects, you are bound to either break the relationship or carry it as a burden. So to make your life colorful, you need to look at the positives in a relationship.
Looking at the positives and negatives aspect in a relationship is a state of mind. No matter how much loving and caring your partner is, if you are inclined to focus on negativity, you will always find something that is missing in your relationship. On the other hand, you can strengthen the bond of your relationship with each passing day by looking at the positives despite not getting much cooperation from your partner at the initial stages of relationship.
Often it is seen that the couple enter into a relationship with very much love for each other, but soon they part ways. They do not remain on the same pitch despite the love that started on a high. Their expectations of being in a relationship overshadow their love for each other, and they start to keep their focus on what is amiss in their relationship than what is positives. Because of that they very soon start to feel that their relationship is going nowhere and that in turn make them to part ways.
Just like the journey of life which is not always smooth, relationship also has their own share of negativity to test the seriousness of a couple for making it successful. The fact is that in a relationship, the share of negativity is always less than the positives, but negativity grabs the attention most. The reason behind unsuccessful relationship is that the partner involved keeps the positives at the back-burner and focuses on the negativity.
Hence if you want to enjoy the blessings of happy and successful relationship, you need to focus on the positives. The situation in a relationship is not always in your control, but it is completely your choice, whether you want to focus on positives or negatives. If you keep your focus on positives and be grateful for the same, you entitle yourself to reap the benefits of long lasting relationship. That is why, if you want to enjoy the goodness of healthy relationship, you should look at the positives.